Money & Mindset
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Step 1. No Debt
Let’s face it—debt has a way of making you feel like you’re constantly trying to catch your breath. I know because I’ve been there—credit cards, unexpected bills, and the exhausting mental load that comes with it all. But if you’re here, you’re already taking the first step: acknowledging it and deciding you’re ready for something different. Today, I want to share how I finally started making real progress, one small habit at a time. debt. yuck. Okay, if you’re new here, welcome to my Finance Journey. We are getting out of the rat race, finding financial freedom, and slowly learning to steward our money well. We’re investing, we’re saving, we’re…
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My Finance Journey
Okay, vulnerability time. I don’t know about you, but I am exhausted by the rat race. Tired of working so hard to keep up with the Joneses—only to realize they’re probably in debt too. Let’s just say, we didn’t exactly tiptoe into debt. We did a full-on cannonball. How We Got Here On paper, my husband has a great-paying job. In reality, over $3,500 of his paycheck disappears every month just to make the minimum payments on our debt. (Not household bills, not food, not gas—debt.) That’s more than $42,000 a year to basically rent our past mistakes. Iconic, right? And honestly—was any of it worth it? The car payment?…
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How I Budget When Income Is All Over the Place
The Season We’re In I want to talk about how I budget when income is all over the place—because even though things look good on paper right now, it hasn’t always been this way. Right now, we’re in one of those seasons where my husband (J) is working like crazy—14 to 16 hour days, 6–7 days a week. For the month of May, he brought in $15,987. Wow W’re rich! lol no, we’re not. And no, we didn’t buy a boat. We bought groceries. Again. On paper? It looks like we’re rolling in money.In reality? We’re planning like we’re broke. Because this won’t last. It never does. His job is…
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How We Got Serious About Paying Off Debt (Without Selling Everything We Own)
If you’re in your “rebuilding era” financially, pull up a chair and grab your coffee — I saved you a seat. Let me just say this up front: we weren’t always serious about money. In fact, we were real good at ignoring it. At one point, I think we had a credit card for every store we walked into. There was no “budget.” No plan. Just vibes and minimum payments. We didn’t put money down on anything. We took on high interest rates because “we’d figure it out later.” Spoiler alert: later came, and it was stressful. But we’re not there anymore. Now? We’re rebuilding — on purpose. And I…
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Why We’re Choosing a Simpler, Faith-Filled Life
For a long time, I thought having it all meant doing it all. Hustling through the chaos, stretching our budget (and my sanity), and keeping up with what everyone else seemed to be doing – or at least pretending to do. But somewhere along the way, I realized: I didn’t want more in the way the world defines it. I wanted less with more meaning. I craved a life where I could slow down enough to hear God’s voice… where peace replaced pressure, and where my kids could grow up with more of Jesus, not just more stuff. That’s when the real shift began for our family. Our Turning Point…






